pfft...

iv just been told that dean ureta has officially resigned. bummer. its a shame that he wont be around to teach me DESIGN. badtrip.

my dad is such an uptight boss. he's got the commanding presence but not in a friendly manner. sometimes i feel like a common helper boy. dont misunderstand me, i think thats a good thing. the discipline aspect should come in handy someday.

i had a discussion about the "bestfriend" label with z last nyt. i think it stirred her up a bit. our generation made the term so ambiguous that using the term now has become a tricky endeavor.

in my opinion, the term "bestfriend" in its true platonic sense, can only be used in situations which involve friends that are of the same sex. meaning, your TRUE bestfriend is a girl if u are a girl, and is a man if u are a man.

some common "bestfriend" relationships are:

1. busted guy who can't get over girl settles for being bestfriend
2. they got the right love at the wrong time, the convenience factor is a hindrance
3. they were good friends before, so after breaking up, the most convinient label for each other would be "bestfriend" and not EX
4. girl doesn't wanna hurt suitor
5. they're both afraid of commitment
6. boy (or girl) sees girl (boy) as a backup if ever his current gf (bf) dumps em. SHOCK ABSORBING RESERVES
7. girl is waiting for boy to break up with his gf. or boy is waiting for girl to break up with her bf. classic rebound
8. guy is gay
9. they're relatives, a cousin or somethin.
10. boy's childhood male buddy/bestfriend decides to trade-in his donger for a pie. transvestite. (creepy)

whew. labeling an opposite sex friend as a bestfriend is a cruel gesture. but then again, everything written here is an OPINION.

deal with it.

-out.

-eLiv